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Helping One Another

“You may not be strong, but that’s okay—we’ll help one another.”The quote comes from British author Charlie Mackesy in The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse, a book beloved for its themes of friendship, vulnerability, and kindness. When the Mole says those words to the Boy, he reminds him that no one is meant to carry life's burdens alone. Yet asking for help is often one of the hardest things we do.

You may lose a job, suffer an illness, experience the end of a relationship, or find yourself overwhelmed by depression. You may desperately need someone to drive you to a doctor's appointment, listen to your fears, or bring you a bowl of chicken soup while you recover. Yet pride, embarrassment, or fear can keep you from reaching out.

For people who have always been independent, asking for help can feel like admitting defeat. They see need as weakness rather than a normal part of being human. Instead of accepting support, they retreat behind walls of pride and suffer alone.

Helping others, however, is not always easy either.

Caregiving is often described as stepping into an entirely new reality. It may begin with small tasks—running errands, making phone calls, or driving someone to appointments. Over time, those responsibilities can grow into something much larger. Caregivers often juggle their own jobs, families, and dreams while putting another person's needs first.

In my own life, helping a struggling immigrant family gradually became a commitment I never expected. What started as occasional assistance grew into helping with childcare, transportation, paperwork, fundraising, and countless unexpected challenges.

There have been difficult days. Understanding problems from a different cultural perspective requires patience, compassion, and flexibility. At times, the commitment has felt nearly around the clock. Whenever I look at the children, I am reminded why the effort matters.

Every child deserves stability. Every child deserves the chance to succeed in school, build friendships, and dream about the future without worrying whether the adults around them can keep the family afloat. Children thrive when they are surrounded by consistency, love, and security.

What has amazed me most is the number of people who have stepped forward to help.Friends, neighbors, family members, and even people I barely know have offered encouragement, donations, advice, and practical assistance. Their generosity has restored my faith in the goodness that still exists all around us. This is the side of America that rarely makes the headlines. It is quiet, compassionate, and deeply human.

Like many people, I sometimes watch the news and wonder whether kindness is disappearing from our society. Then I see someone make a donation, offer a ride, send an encouraging message, or ask how the family is doing. Those simple acts remind me that compassion is still alive and well. The truth is that none of us gets through life alone. At different times, each of us will be the person who needs help and the person who gives it. As you grow older you will need the help of family and friends. Unlike most other high-income nations, the United States has a weak social welfare system. We have to depend on each other for support. 

If you have already contributed to  this family, thank you. Your generosity is making a real difference in their lives. If you still consider helping, I invite you to do so now. Every contribution, no matter the size, helps provide stability and opportunity for a family working hard to build a better future.

As Charlie Mackesy reminds us, we help one another. Sometimes that simple act of kindness can change a life. Over the past two days, $1,200 was contributed through the Go-Fund-Me account, and $ 450 sent to me to distribute on their behalf. We still have a ways to go to insure the family is on solid financial footing after their father set fire to the family car and incurred thousands of dollars in unanticipated expenses, making it difficult to  pay for housing, transportation, and food. With your help, they should have their lives under control again by fall.   To contribute now, click GOFUNDME. 

Have you ever needed a caregiver or had to change your way of life to become one? Do share your experience on my blog site.

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